Wedding of Jo+Carole in France
I was still living in Scotland when my friends Jocelyn and Carole announced that they were getting married, and this weekend the time finally arrived for their big day. Although they have been living in Glasgow for almost as long as I had, they are both in fact French and so had decided to get married in their home country, or to be more specific the town of Oloron-Sainte-Marie in the Southwest close to the Pyrenees.
Needless to say, myself and all the other friends they have made in Scotland were delighted at the opportunity for a wee holiday in France, and of course were also very pleased for them since they are such a lovely pair!
Myself and Laura were the only folks travelling from Holland, although since we were able to get a direct flight ours was a relatively easy journey compared to the people in Scotland who had to contend with various ill-timed connections and dashing across Paris in order to make flights. This meant that we were able to arrive a few days before the wedding and could spend a day in Pau (rhymes with “low”), before taking an outrageously-expensive taxi to Navarrenx, the village where we would be staying during the wedding. It’s a lovely wee place, not much bigger than a couple of streets and with a a huge medieval stone wall encircling the entire village.
When we arrived we immediately bumped into Antoine, Tam, Jef, and most of the others from Scotland. I have not seen any of them for over a year and it was really great to catch up. Needless to say, soon (about 5 minutes after arriving) the beer was being poured and the piss-up starting. Not for the first time on the trip I ended up totally plastered and probably making an arse of myself, but well, I was on holiday…
Saturday was the day of the wedding, where after a short service in the city hall the service took place in a lovely old church in Oloron, followed by the reception in an old farmhouse not far from Navarrenx. It was an absolutely fantastic place, surrounded by fields and hills with the Pyrenees and Spain in the distance, and the wedding meal and dance (with Céilidh music and Scottish dancing) was a good laugh too. The only thing was of course that I and the rest of the Scottish lot could not understand a word of French, and we were left feeling a bit lost during the service and speeches. The Scottish-based Frenchies were able to offer some helpful translations of the funny bits!
Sunday and Monday involved more eating, drinking, and not doing too much else. The last of these was pretty much essential due to to the heat, which our northern skin is not really built to deal with. Fine if you don’t have to work, though.
Finally, there was a wee garden party at Jo’s parents’ house in the evening before we headed home on Tuesday, back to Holland and work and responsibilities. And, I would think, a period of sobriety.

